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After my two years in the Army, I got a job teaching at Warren High School in Washington County, Ohio, the same high school I attended. Because I lived nearby in Athens, I was able to keep in contact with Gifford and his wife Mary on a regular basis. They would invite me, my wife, and my mother to Middle East and North African dinners they would have for students and friends at their home on Canterbury Drive in Athens. We also would meet for lunch from time to time, and he would visit my home for our annual taco and bean feeds. I would stop by his home and take him some cookies, honey, and homemade wine around Christmas time. During our visits, I would ask him about political situations not only in the Middle East and Africa but all over the world. He would impart deeper insights into all the different factors that played into those situations. During my teaching career, Gifford would bring OHIO students from Middle East and African countries to talk to my social studies class. If I couldn’t pick them up, he would drive them to Warren High School himself. He also gave a presentation to the Cutler Heritage and Legacy Committee, a local history organization, about his POW experiences in Germany after being captured at the Battle of the Bulge in World War II. Gifford gave several presentations on this topic to many local schools and history organizations. One story he shared during these presentations was personal. It involved his wife Mary, who was a professor in OHIO’s former home economics department. They had been dating, and one day, he arrived at her residence with flowers and asked her to marry him. He said she thought it was a joke and laughed at him. They were later married and enjoyed a happy life. Gifford spent his retirement being active in his church, volunteering in the community, and was a volunteer counselor in local prisons.
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Mary developed dementia later in life and was a resident at Hickory Creek of Athens, a short- and long-term nursing facility. Gifford, being the dedicated companion he was, visited her regularly. I was able to accompany him on one of the visits. My final visit with Gifford came in early 2017 at his residence in an assisted living facility in The Plains, Ohio, near Athens. He was eating lunch at a table with about a half-dozen ladies and was in good spirits. His voice was almost a whisper, but we made small talk and he thanked me for coming by. I would like to thank the many professors at Ohio University, especially history department faculty like Gifford Doxsee, who contributed to my education and helped me to have a career as a high school teacher.